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The New Rules
The dating dos and don'ts for the digital generation from the bestselling authors of The Rules
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This book is ideal for women navigating contemporary dating landscapes who appreciate traditional advice with a modern twist. It suits readers interested in blending classic dating principles with digital etiquette.
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The Rules taught a generation of women how to turn their dating misery into marriage success. Dating gurus Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider showed millions of women how 'playing hard to get' could help them capture the heart of Mr Right. Their book proved controversial, sparked worldwide debate and became a publishing phenomenon.
But that was all before Twitter, Facebook, online dating, texting and BBM. There are now even more ways to mess up your dating life. Ellen and Sherrie are regularly inundated with messages from women wanting to know: how to maintain a good profile on Facebook, the rules for texting, emailing and tweeting, and how to spot cheaters and players. This is the new dating bible for Rules Girls who want to have a good time dating without getting hurt or played.
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Critics praise The New Rules for its essential reminders and practical advice. Star Magazine highlights its painful but vital lessons, while Independent.ie appreciates its relatable coping strategies. According to Sunshine Coast Daily, the book's famous dictates include not approaching men first and maintaining mystery. Cosmopolitan notes its relevance for the digital age, and Pride acknowledges its strong case for preserving an air of mystery despite modern trends.
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ISBN: 9780749957247
Publisher: Little, Brown Book Group
Format: Paperback / softback
Date Published: 08 January 2013
Country: United Kingdom
Imprint: Piatkus Books
Audience: General / adult
DIMENSIONS
Spine width: 19.0mm
Width: 135.0mm
Height: 214.0mm
Weight: 263g
Pages: 256
About the Author
Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider are two of the best-known names in the dating world. When The Rules was first published in 1995 it became a New York Times bestseller. Over the course of their careers, they have helped countless women find and marry Mr Right.
As part of their work they also run a worldwide network of Rules dating contacts so that women can get quick, free advice and support. They have been friends for 25 years, advising women on their love lives through their books and coaching courses. Ellen is married with two children and Sherrie is married with a teenage daughter.Also by Ellen Fein
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