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Sex When You Don't Feel Like It
The Truth about Mismatched Libido and Rediscovering Desire
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A practical guide to understanding both low and high libido, drawing on science, straight talk, and useful exercises to stop blame and rekindle pleasure. For anyone who finds that sex has become a chore or a mystery, sex therapist Cyndi Darnell cuts through the cultural myths...
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A practical guide to understanding both low and high libido, drawing on science, straight talk, and useful exercises to stop blame and rekindle pleasure.
For anyone who finds that sex has become a chore or a mystery, sex therapist Cyndi Darnell cuts through the cultural myths and pressure to help you understand and reclaim your sexual desire without shame. With proven, practical exercises, personal reflections, and discussion prompts, she helps couples tackle the self-doubt, discomfort, and emotional blocks that often get in the way of intimacy.
The result is a path toward soul-nourishing conversations that help couples unlock their unique erotic identities and transform sexual struggles into self-awareness, connection, and confidence.
Sex When You Don't Feel Like It offers readers a thoughtful journey into understanding and reviving one's own libido, providing tools to foster a deeper emotional and physical connection with one's partner.
Book Details
INFORMATION
ISBN: 9798881805418
Publisher: Bloomsbury Publishing Plc
Format: Paperback / softback
Date Published: 11 December 2025
Country: United States
Imprint: Rowman & Littlefield
Audience: General / adult
DIMENSIONS
Spine width: 20.0mm
Width: 140.0mm
Height: 214.0mm
Weight: 405g
Pages: 272
About the Author
Cyndi Darnell is a sex and relationships therapist, clinical sexologist, and leading authority on desire and libido. Originally from Melbourne Australia, she now maintains a global practice from New York City where she offers consultations and coaching worldwide helping people resolve erotic quandaries and transform fear into freedom.
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