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Love & Autism

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Love & Autism by Kay Kerr offers an intimate look into the lives of autistic Australians as they navigate the quest for love. The book profiles individuals including Michael, famed from Love on the Spectrum, Chloë, Noor, Jess, and Tim, each sharing their unique experiences with relationships, self-expression, and personal growth. Kerr's compassionate narrative celebrates neurodiversity and offers a nuanced exploration of love through an autistic perspective.
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This book is ideal for readers interested in autism, neurodiversity, and personal memoirs. It will particularly resonate with those seeking to understand love from an autistic perspective, including members of the autistic community, their families, allies, and anyone drawn to heartfelt biographies.

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Love has always intrigued me, in part because I have carried for a long time a feeling that I am doing love wrong.

Michael made a name for himself on the hit show Love on the Spectrum. After his televised first dating experiences, will he complete his quest to find his queen?

Chloë was always good at maths, with feelings 'too big' to be contained. When she reconnects with her childhood boyfriend, it must be fate.

Noor has had a lot on her plate from a young age, especially at home. People-pleasing becomes her survival mode, but Noor can't keep her struggles inside forever.

Jess has spent a lifetime being put into different boxes. Through her strong will and creativity, can she break out and build a life that is truly her own?

Tim is a non-speaking autistic man who has been underestimated all his life. But through willpower, technology and a mother's love, he has a chance of finding a different kind of voice.

Through the intimate writing of critically acclaimed autistic author Kay Kerr, Love & Autism presents an uplifting celebration of neurodivergent love, the search for it and a deeper look into the lives of autistic Australians.

Praise for Love & Autism

'Beautiful, nuanced and heartwarming, Love & Autism is an immersive, joyful read about life and love through an autistic lens. Kay Kerr gives us a wonderful and frank front-row seat to what it means to be autistic and to love, affectionately and refreshingly told from a neurodivergent perspective. A masterclass in narrative non-fiction and longform journalism, Love & Autism takes us on a journey of joy, heartache and hope, connecting us all through our shared love of love.' - SALLY HEPWORTH

'Kay Kerr has done a wonderful job of community building through tender storytelling. This is an important, heartfelt and generous book for neurodivergent people, disabled people and allies.' - CARLY FINDLAY OAM

'A fierce, tender and affirming celebration of the autistic community's capacity for, and experience of, love. Kay's writing is sharp but affectionate in its advocacy and validation, demonstrating the depth and breadth of neurodivergent experiences of love and romance. This is much-needed and eye-opening work.' - SARAH AYOUB

'Love & Autism draws together complex, beautiful and personal storying shared from within the worlds, hearts and minds of neurodiverse peoples, while focusing on a subject which is relatable for all: love. Relational, both in focus and writing style, Kay has created a gift that may benefit all who have the privilege of unwrapping it.' - DR AMY THUNIG

'A compassionate, affirming exploration of the vastness of love. Kerr writes with a journalist's hunger for the heart of the story and illuminates minds often misunderstood. Essential reading for neurodivergent and neurotypical lovers alike.' - ANNA SPARGO-RYAN

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Love & Autism is widely praised for its heartfelt and nuanced portrayal of love among autistic individuals. Sally Hepworth calls it a masterclass in narrative non-fiction, highlighting its honest and joyful depiction from a neurodivergent viewpoint. Sarah Ayoub commends Kerr's writing for its fierce, tender advocacy and validation of the autistic community's rich experiences of love and romance. The book is recognised as an important, eye-opening read that builds community through compassionate storytelling.

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Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9781761260643

Publisher: Pan Macmillan Australia

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 28 March 2023

Country: Australia

Imprint: Macmillan Australia

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 26.0mm

Width: 157.0mm

Height: 235.0mm

Weight: 382g

Pages: 304

About the Author

Kay Kerr is an autistic author and journalist from the Sunshine Coast, Queensland. Her debut novel Please Don't Hug Me (2020) was shortlisted for Book of the Year for Older Children at the Australian Book Industry Awards (ABIA) in 2021, and listed as a 'Notable Book' by the Children's Book Council of Australia (CBCA). Her second novel, Social Queue (October 2021) was also a 'Notable Book' by the CBCA.

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