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Finding Your Self at the Heartbreak Hotel

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You can’t move past the breakup. You feel stuck in cycles of rumination and pain. This helpful guide provides brand-new therapeutic tools to revolutionise the way we overcome loss, and seek and welcome love, within and outside of ourselves. We know heartbreaks are inevitable. We also... Read More
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You can’t move past the breakup. You feel stuck in cycles of rumination and pain.

This helpful guide provides brand-new therapeutic tools to revolutionise the way we overcome loss, and seek and welcome love, within and outside of ourselves.

Get over your breakup and heal yourself in this new essential guide to love in 2024

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You can’t move past the breakup. You feel stuck in cycles of rumination and pain.

This helpful guide provides brand-new therapeutic tools to revolutionise the way we overcome loss, and seek and welcome love, within and outside of ourselves.

We know heartbreaks are inevitable. We also know that somehow it is within our power to break free of the suffering and transform pain into meaning. Yet, somewhere between the sad songs, the late-night fixations, and the social media stalking, we get lost.

Alice Haddon, psychologist of over twenty-five years, and Ruth Field, bestselling self-help author, show us how we can dissect heartbreaks, mine them for strength and live our most empowered life. They also examine how society sets up women to fall into love traps and engage bad habits of self-sacrificing and enabling. With Alice and Ruth’s help, those patterns end forever.

Bursting with compassion, humour and courage, Finding Your Self at the Heartbreak Hotel will take you into the actual exercises conducted at the retreat that they run. It will teach you how to:

  • Face your deepest hurt without shame or judgment
  • Ask for help and lean on the collective
  • Be kind and forgiving to yourself
  • Turn your heartbreak into love and pride

Providing you with a clear pathway to recovery, Alice and Ruth draw on their wealth of professional and personal experience to help you.

Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9780008580131

Publisher: HarperCollins Publishers

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 01 February 2024

Country: United Kingdom

Imprint: HQ

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 25.0mm

Width: 153.0mm

Height: 234.0mm

Weight: 340g

Pages: 224

About the Author

The Heartbreak Hotel was set up in 2020 as a retreat for heartbroken women by good friends Alice and Ruth, who met at Edinburgh University. Their mission is to light up hearts all over the world.

Dr Alice Haddon is a psychologist and psychology lecturer at the University of London. Her writing has been featured in The Times, Harper’s Bazaar and HuffPost.

Ruth Field is a former criminal barrister and has published three coaching self-help books. She is a motivational speaker and during lockdown trained formally as a coach.

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