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Honoring the Self

The Psychology of Confidence and Respect
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From the acclaimed author of The Six Pillars of Self-Esteem comes a powerful guide to growing your self-confidence and creating a more fulfilled life. The challenge to honour the self calls on the heroic possibilities of our nature—on the will to think, to understand, to remain... Read More
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From the acclaimed author of The Six Pillars of Self-Esteem comes a powerful guide to growing your self-confidence and creating a more fulfilled life.

The challenge to honour the self calls on the heroic possibilities of our nature—on the will to think, to understand, to remain true to our understanding, to struggle, to endure, to persevere, and to remain open and responsive to life, sometimes in the face of dread, despair, confusion, and loneliness.

What is the most important judgement you will ever make? The judgement you pass on yourself. Self-esteem is the key to success or failure.

"Tell me how a person judges his or her self-esteem," says pioneering psychologist Nathaniel Branden, "and I will tell you how that person operates at work, in love, in sex, in parenting, in every important aspect of existence—and how high he or she is likely to rise. The reputation you have with yourself—your self-esteem—is the single most important factor for a fulfilling life."

In Honoring the Self, Branden offers comprehensive, thoughtful advice for raising your self-esteem and teaches you how to:

  • Grow in self-confidence and self-respect.
  • Nurture self-esteem in children.
  • Break free of guilt and fear of others' disapproval.
  • Honour the self—the ethics of rational self-interest.

Self-concept is destiny. Using the sage advice and self-reflective prompts in Honoring the Self, you can discover the power of personal transformation and build a better life.

Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9798217300877

Publisher: Random House USA Inc

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 01 December 2026

Country: United States

Imprint: Bantam

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Width: 132.0mm

Height: 210.0mm

Weight: 0g

Pages: 304

About the Author

Nathaniel Branden's pioneering work in the field of self-esteemover seven decades contributed to the evolution of the concept from obscurity to greater levels of clarity and acceptance.He wrote nearly 20 books on self-esteem, including such influential works as The Psychology of Self-Esteem, How to Raise Your Self-Esteem, The Six Pillars of Self-Esteem, and The Art of Living Consciously. In addition to his extensive work as a writer, Branden worked as a lecturer, therapist, and corporate consultant specializing in assisting modern businesses employ the principles of self-esteem to achieve greater levels of success. He also the founded The Branden Institute for Self-Esteem, a counseling center in Los Angeles, California. He died in 2014.

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