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Unbothered

The Art of Letting Go to Find Yourself
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Unbothered is not another book about boundaries or breakups - it's about identity. It's about choosing peace over potential. And it's about leading with grace in a world that teaches women to beg for crumbs and call it connection. All from the social media sensation that... Read More
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Unbothered is not another book about boundaries or breakups - it's about identity. It's about choosing peace over potential. And it's about leading with grace in a world that teaches women to beg for crumbs and call it connection. All from the social media sensation that women all over the world love to follow and have learned to trust.

Since she made her first TikTok in 2021, social media sensation Margarita Nazarenko has built a massive following, with 1.5 million TikTok followers, 600,000 Instagram followers and millions of YouTube views. She's also learned a lot about what her followers are experiencing and what is bothering them. She's discovered that what they really want is to be unbothered - they want to learn how to detach from situations and relationships that are stopping them making the most of themselves and their lives.

Unbothered is a modern manifesto for the woman who's done over-functioning in love. It speaks to the heart of a generation of women who are emotionally exhausted from chasing the unavailable, proving their worth, and holding relationships together alone.

This book offers a clear, compassionate roadmap to let go - not to lose, but to lead. Grounded in psychology, nervous system regulation, and feminine identity, Unbothered reframes emotional detachment as strength, not coldness.

It is not another book about boundaries or breakups - it's about identity. It's about choosing peace over potential. And it's about leading with grace in a world that teaches women to beg for crumbs and call it connection.

Unbothered is Margarita Nazarenko's masterful manual on how to become unbothered in all sorts of scenarios. In her inimitable, motivational style she inspires readers to change their lives for the better. Using examples and with exercises to follow, she makes it clear how they can.

Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9780733654725

Publisher: Hachette Australia

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 26 May 2026

Country: Australia

Imprint: Hachette Australia

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Weight: 300g

Pages: 320

About the Author

Margarita Nazarenko is a globally recognised voice in feminine psychology, confidence and identity. With a multi-platform reach of over 2 million (TikTok, Instagram, YouTube), and a podcast (Being Her) that ranks in the top 25 global education charts, she has cultivated a loyal, emotionally engaged female audience.

Her debut, The New Rules, positioned her as one of Australia's leading voices in self-development. Margarita combines grounded wisdom, cultural insight and personal storytelling to offer a new kind of empowerment - one rooted in emotional intelligence, not performance.

She lives in Sydney, Australia with her husband and two children.

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