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The New Rules

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We all want to live the best life we can, but how do we sort through all the confusing messages about how to do that? Margarita Nazarenko tells it like it is when it comes to women and relationships – and women's relationships with themselves. A... Read More
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Inspiring, simple and practical advice from TikTok sensation, hit podcaster and YouTuber Margarita Nazarenko. With Margarita's trademark wit and directness, this book is like your portable best friend.

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We all want to live the best life we can, but how do we sort through all the confusing messages about how to do that?

Margarita Nazarenko tells it like it is when it comes to women and relationships – and women's relationships with themselves. A qualified life coach, YouTuber, and TikTok sensation, Margarita advises women not only about how to navigate relationships with men, but how to create wonderful lives with or without a relationship.

Her message is straightforward: don't expect to have a great life if you're not creating it for yourself first.

The New Rules collects the wisdom Margarita has shared with her followers all over the world as well as new insights – and a bit about Margarita herself – in her unique and inimitable style. Margarita is agony aunt, big sister, and best friend rolled into one, and this book is a portable best friend that women can carry with them throughout the day – and throughout life.

Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9780733651748

Publisher: Hachette Australia

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 29 May 2024

Country: Australia

Imprint: Hachette Australia

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 28.0mm

Width: 152.0mm

Height: 233.0mm

Weight: 400g

Pages: 320

About the Author

After three years studying at London's Academy of Live and Recorded Arts, Margarita Nazarenko started her career in acting, adding appearances on The Bill, Doctors and Home & Away to her resume, in addition to modelling, which saw her contest the title of Miss Universe. During this time she discovered a passion for self-development and completed a Diploma in Life Coaching. With a huge following on TikTok, Instagram and YouTube, along with her hit podcast Being Her, Margarita talks about everything from women's confidence to relationships and love. She has carved out a niche for herself thanks to her authentic approach to feminine energy, finding your passion and accountability.

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