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Is This OK?

One Woman's Search For Connection Online
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Is This OK? is Harriet Gibsone's uproariously funny and brutally honest memoir about navigating the complexities of connection in the digital age. A music journalist with a knack for compulsive internet searches and one-sided celebrity fixations, Harriet's life takes a poignant turn when diagnosed with early menopause in her late twenties. This candid account explores how online addictions meet the harsh realities of illness and motherhood, revealing a raw and relatable journey marked by humour and heart.
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Ideal for readers interested in contemporary memoirs that blend comedy with candid explorations of personal challenges, especially those intrigued by internet culture, mental health, and motherhood. Fans of authors like Caitlin Moran and Sara Pascoe will find Harriet Gibsone's voice fresh and relatable.

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An extraordinarily honest, outrageously funny account of growing up as a millennial woman in the era of the early internet - from bad MSN boyfriends, to the tyranny of Instagram mumfluencers.

An extraordinarily honest, outrageously funny account of growing up as a millennial woman in the era of the early internet - from bad MSN boyfriends, to the tyranny of Instagram mumfluencers.

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'Persistently funny, ill-advisedly honest and deadly accurate' - Caitlin Moran

'This book is a delight - very real and very entertaining' - Bob Mortimer

Music journalist, self-professed creep and former winner of the coveted 'Fittest Girl in Year 11' award, Harriet Gibsone lives in fear of her internet searches being leaked.

Harriet spent much of her young life feeding neuroses and insecurities with obsessive internet searching (including compulsive googling of exes, prospective partners, and their exes), and indulging in whirlwind 'parasocial relationships' (translation: one-sided affairs with celebrities she has never met).

Suddenly, with a diagnosis of early menopause in her late twenties, her relationship with the internet takes a darker turn, as her online addictions are thrown into sharp relief by the corporeal realities of illness and motherhood.

An outrageously funny, raw and painfully honest account of trying to find connection in the age of the internet, Is This OK? is the launch of an exciting new comic voice.

'Very funny and deeply moving' - Sara Pascoe

'Hilarious and brutal! I could not put it down' - Lou Sanders

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Is This OK? has been widely praised for its humour and honesty. Caitlin Moran calls it "persistently funny, ill-advisedly honest and deadly accurate," while the Guardian's Maeve Higgins describes it as "a book to hold on to and one to share." The memoir is celebrated as a "hugely enjoyable read" and "deeply moving" by reviewers including Sara Pascoe and Lou Sanders, who found it "hilarious and brutal". The writing is noted for its blend of silliness and profundity, making it both a delight and a poignant reflection on modern life.

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ISBN: 9781035000999

Publisher: Pan Macmillan

Format: Hardback

Date Published: 25 May 2023

Country: United Kingdom

Imprint: Picador

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 33.0mm

Width: 145.0mm

Height: 225.0mm

Weight: 416g

Pages: 304

About the Author

Harriet Gibsone began her career as a runner for MTV, before becoming a music journalist in the 00s, writing for publications such as Q, NME, Time Out and Nylon. She spent eight years as a Guardian staff writer and editor and now has a column for its weekend magazine. Her memoir Is This OK? is published in 2023.

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