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Women, Men and the Whole Damn Thing

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Women, Men and the Whole Damn Thing by David Leser explores the dynamics between genders, delving into historical and contemporary issues surrounding gender relations. The book examines the aftermath of the #MeToo movement, analysing cultural and societal shifts. Leser offers a compassionate exploration into how men and women can redefine their interactions in a rapidly changing world.
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If you are interested in exploring the complexities of gender politics and the #MeToo movement, this book offers a thought-provoking examination of the evolving dynamics between women and men. It delves into cultural narratives and personal stories, providing insights into societal changes and challenges surrounding gender equality.

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A brilliant, impassioned, unflinching account of the firestorm of #MeToo, how we got there, and where we must now go.

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In Women, Men & the Whole Damn Thing, author David Leser presents an essential and incisive investigation that unearths the roots of misogyny, its inextricable links to the patriarchy, and how history brought us to the #MeToo movement and the wave of incandescent female rage sweeping the globe. Crucially, he also interrogates his own psyche, privilege, and culpability as he bears witness to the 'collective wound of the world' and how we might move towards healing.

This book calls on men (yes, all men) to be accountable for their contribution to the continuing oppression of women by the patriarchal structures that have dominated our culture historically, right through to the present moment. David Leser argues that female oppression is the greatest moral issue of our times and that we are all responsible for dismantling the structures that cause such oppression. This book is one man's journey into how to grapple with both the personal and collective aftermath of #MeToo and the new future that beckons.

Including interviews with Tina Brown, Zainab Salbi, Marlene Schiappa and Helen Garner, among other globally recognised names, Women, Men & the Whole Damn Thing is a bold, honest and self-searching overview of the cultural moment we find ourselves in.

'So timely, connecting and regularly sublime that it feels like it was written as much for my mates and I as it was for my daughters. Resolutely human. Utterly essential. Wholly unputdownable.' - Trent Dalton, author of Boy Swallows Universe

'I want to hire a plane and air-drop this book onto footy ovals, board-rooms, electoral offices and boys' schools.' - Benjamin Law, journalist, author

'A brave plunge into deep waters: a tough, thorough, tender-even loving-book.' - Robert Drewe, author of The Shark Net

'If you are a mum of a boy, I think you need to read this book. If you are the mum of a girl, I think you need to read this book. If you are a woman, I think you need to read this book. Especially, if you are a man, I think you need to read this book.' - Justine Armstrong, founder of Fearless Speaking

'At last, a man has listened and understood.' - Jane Caro, social commentator

'This book got under my skin and into my heart. Every man in the country needs to read it.' - Tom Harkin, CEO, Tomorrow Man

'Staggering in its range and depth. A landmark book.' - Steve Biddulph, best-selling author

'I thought my relationship with women was fine, however, through [David's] words he challenged my internal dialogue. He educated me, provoked my vulnerabilities and ultimately encouraged me to be better.' - Tom Harley, CEO, Sydney Swans

'I have not met a more important male advocate for how we navigate a more inclusive future together.' - Sam Mostyn, Governor-General of Australia

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Women, Men and the Whole Damn Thing by David Leser has been highly praised for its insightful exploration of the #MeToo movement and gender dynamics. Reviewers commend Leser for his deep empathy, courage, and thorough research, highlighting his ability to address complex issues surrounding male and female relationships with honesty and vulnerability. The book is noted for offering a hopeful perspective on restructuring these relationships for the betterment of society, while also challenging readers to reconsider preconceived notions about gender roles and advocating for genuine dialogue and change.

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ISBN: 9781760877729

Publisher: Allen & Unwin

Format: Hardback

Date Published: 05 August 2019

Country: Australia

Imprint: Allen & Unwin

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 24.0mm

Width: 153.0mm

Height: 233.0mm

Weight: 410g

Pages: 336

About the Author

David Leser is an Australian journalist, author, public interviewer and keynote speaker. A former Middle East and North American correspondent he has been a journalist for 45 years and become widely known in Australia for his in-depth profiles and stories on social and political issues.

He has interviewed everyone from Meryl Streep, Germaine Greer and Bruce Springsteen to Gina Rinehart, Anna Murdoch, Alan Jones and the Dalai Lama. David is the recipient of numerous awards for his journalism and his memoir To Begin To Know: Walking in the Shadows of my Father, was shortlisted for the National Biography Award in 2015.

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