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The Modern Loss Handbook

An Interactive Guide to Moving Through Grief and Building Your Resilience
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The Modern Loss Handbook by Rebecca Soffer offers an honest and practical guide to navigating grief. It challenges stigma around loss and emphasises resilience and meaning-making through candid advice and creative exercises. The book includes prompts, rituals, and therapeutic techniques to help readers explore grief on their own terms and timeline, without judgement.
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This handbook is ideal for individuals coping with personal loss seeking compassionate, practical support. It also suits those wishing to understand grief better and find meaningful ways to honour loved ones while managing the emotional complexities of bereavement.

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Stay connected to your person, yourself, and the world around you in the aftermath of loss.

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Modern Loss is all about eradicating the stigma and awkwardness around grief while also focusing on our capacity for resilience and finding meaning.

In this interactive guide, Modern Loss cofounder Rebecca Soffer offers candid, practical, and witty advice for confronting a future without your person, honouring their memory, dealing with trigger days, managing your professional life, and navigating new and existing relationships.

You'll find no worn-out platitudes or empty assurances here. With prompts, creative projects, innovative rituals, therapeutic-based exercises, and more, this is the place to explore the messy, long arc of loss on your own timelineβ€”and without judgment.

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Erin Lee Carr praises the book as life-changing for anyone facing loss, wishing it were widely shared at memorial events. Michael Cruz Kayne calls it candid, funny, and filled with practical tools that avoid clichΓ©d reassurances. Leslie Gray Streeter describes it as a soulful and honest roadmap from someone who deeply understands grief and offers compassionate guidance through it.

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INFORMATION

ISBN: 9780762474813

Publisher: Running Press,U.S.

Format: Hardback

Date Published: 02 June 2022

Country: United States

Imprint: Running Press Adult

Audience: General / adult, Tertiary education, Professional and scholarly

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 26.0mm

Width: 154.0mm

Height: 206.0mm

Weight: 640g

Pages: 240

About the Author

Rebecca Soffer cofounded the Modern Loss community intially to fill a void in a world where there was so little honest conversation around grief, as she discovered after losing both her parents in her late twenties. A former producer for the Peabody Award-winning Colbert Report, she has spoken extensively on the themes of loss and resilience and has been featured on CBS This Morning, MSNBC, the New York Times, HuffPost, and Glamour. She lives in The Berkshires with her husband and sons.

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