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The Housemates

Everything One Young Student Learnt about Love, Care and Dementia from Living in a Nursing Home
By Teun Toebes
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The Housemates tells the inspiring true story of twenty-one-year-old nursing student Teun Toebes, who chooses to move into a nursing home as a housemate rather than a caretaker. Through shared experiences like Friday drinks, trips out, and simple pleasures such as laughter and coffee, Teun forms deep friendships with the elderly residents. His time living alongside them reveals the harsh realities of how society and care systems often diminish the elderly, especially those with dementia, prompting him to advocate for change.
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The international bestseller - an uplifting story of cross-generational living and friendship.

Twenty-one-year-old nursing student Teun Toebes (both broke and curious) decided to move into a nursing home and experience the daily life of elderly residents, not as a nurse or a carer - but as a housemate. The experience was to change his life, as well as the lives of his new friends.

He initiated Friday drinks, trips out and camping evenings, and reintroduced pleasure in the small things in life: a laugh, a dance, a cup of good coffee, a chance to sit in the sun. As he became embedded in the community, however, Teun became more and more distressingly aware of how society and the care system diminishes the elderly and particularly people living with dementia - and he resolved to do something about it.

A number 1 bestseller in the Netherlands, The Housemates is Teun Toebes' story of his years of being a housemate, the friends who changed him and a heartfelt cry for change in how we care for the elderly.

Book Details

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ISBN: 9781914613395

Publisher: Duckworth Books

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 03 August 2023

Country: United Kingdom

Imprint: September Publishing

Contributors:

  • Translated by Laura Vroomen

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Width: 135.0mm

Height: 216.0mm

Weight: 0g

Pages: 256

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About the Author

Teun Toebes is the eldest in a family of four, and his mother is a nurse. He studied Higher Vocational Education nursing and Care Ethics and Policy, where, during a compulsory internship, he was introduced to dementia care, and he has not been able to let go of it since. Teun is the passionate co-founder and ambassador of the Article 25 Foundation. His mission to make dementia care more humane worldwide, and he has won several awards for his work and initiatives. teuntoebes.com article25foundation.com

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