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The Equal Parent

How Sharing the Load Helps the Whole Family Thrive
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In The Equal Parent, Paul Morgan-Bentley challenges the prevailing narrative that fathers are less competent than mothers in parenting. Drawing from his own experiences raising a child alongside his husband and extensive global research, Paul offers fresh insights into sharing the parental responsibilities equally. The book debunks myths about traditional parenting roles and provides practical guidance to create a more balanced family dynamic that benefits all members, especially children.
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This book is ideal for all parents and prospective parents seeking a fair, equal approach to child-rearing. It particularly resonates with those interested in challenging traditional parental roles and exploring inclusive family dynamics.

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The myth-busting guide to everything you need to know about equal parenting

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All parents and would-be parents should read this book. It will change their lives. - Mary Ann Sieghart, journalist and bestselling author of The Authority Gap

Lying awake one night after struggling to put his newborn son back to sleep, Paul Morgan-Bentley found himself desperately scrolling for parenting advice for new fathers. Soon, Paul picked up on a recurring narrative - compared to mums, dads were useless.

Frustrated by this generalisation and determined every parent should have an equal role in raising their child, Paul decided this narrative needed to change. In this deeply personal experience of fatherhood and parenting alongside his husband, Paul delves into what it really means to share the parental load, and how you can achieve it.

With a range of research from around the world, and conversations with leading scientists, The Equal Parent explores the truths behind the falsehoods and myths about parenting roles. This book will help give you the tools to achieve the parenting equality that will benefit everyone in your family: mothers, fathers and, most importantly, your children.

A myth-busting must-read about creating parenting equality for fans of Caitlin Moran, The Danish Way of Parenting and The Book You Wish Your Parents Had Read.

An essential interrogation of the inequities of modern parenting. This book will change the way you see your family. - Leah Hazard, Sunday Times bestselling author of Womb

'An important book - an antidote to the many misconceptions surrounding parenthood. Thoughtful and encouraging, it is an inspiring look at how parenting can be.' - Catherine Cho, author of Inferno: A Memoir of Motherhood and Madness

'A fascinating and well-written journey... delightful... It's exactly the kind of parenting book I love. Highly recommended.' - Jessica Joelle Alexander, author of The Danish Way of Parenting

'An incredible book on parenthood.' - Ziauddin Yousafzai

'So validating... a brilliant book.' - Sunday Times Style

'Incredible.' - Pink News

'Completely fascinating.' - The Observer

'A really valuable book, written with great insight and warmth.' - Brian Viner, author and critic

'A fascinating deep dive into parenting roles.' - Sun Fabulous Mag

'A timely, humane and very welcome read.' - Sarah Blaffer Hrdy, author of Mother Nature and Mothers and Others

'Funny, tender and insightful.' - Metro

'Absolutely THE read... a timely conversation about what constitutes an equal parent.' - Reviewer

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Highly recommended by authors and critics alike, the book has been described as a myth-busting must-read that is thoughtful, encouraging, and inspiring. Praise includes terms like fascinating, brilliant, and incredible, highlighting its warmth, insight, and importance in reshaping the understanding of modern parenthood. Readers who appreciate works by Caitlin Moran and Jessica Joelle Alexander will find this especially engaging.

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INFORMATION

ISBN: 9781804191200

Publisher: Octopus Publishing Group

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 02 March 2023

Country: United Kingdom

Imprint: Octopus Publishing Group

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 30.0mm

Width: 152.0mm

Height: 232.0mm

Weight: 333g

Pages: 272

About the Author

Paul Morgan-Bentley is Head of Investigations at The Times and specialises in undercover work and in-depth reporting. He has won The Cudlipp Award for campaigning journalism at the National Press Awards and is among the writers who have been shortlisted the most times for British Journalism Awards.

Paul is also an advocate for men properly sharing responsibility for caring for their children. He lives in Buckinghamshire with his husband, Robin, and their son, Solly.

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