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The memoir Holding the Man by Timothy Conigrave is a poignant account of love and loss, chronicling the author's 15-year relationship with John Caleo. Set against the backdrop of Australia's evolving social landscapes, this deeply personal narrative explores themes of friendship, identity, and the challenges posed by societal prejudices. Conigrave offers an intimate glimpse into their lives, celebrating their bond and the courage it took to sustain it.
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You might find this story captivating if you're drawn to poignant, true-life romances and tales of love enduring through adversity. This memoir details a deeply personal journey, offering insight into the challenges faced by a couple amid societal pressures, making it a compelling read for those interested in heartfelt narratives and LGBTQ+ histories.

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Originally published: Ringwood, Vic., Australia: McPhee Gribble, 1995.

As uplifting as it is moving,Holding the Manis a funny, sad and celebratory account of growing up gay, and a powerful love story.

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Now a major film featuring Guy Pearce and Anthony LaPaglia, and directed by Neil Armfield.

The mid-seventies: at an all-boys Catholic school in Melbourne, Timothy Conigrave falls wildly and sweetly in love with the captain of the football team. So begins a relationship that weathers disapproval, separation and, ultimately, death.

With honesty and insight, Holding the Man explores the highs and lows of any partnership, and the strength of heart both men have to find when they test positive to HIV. This is a book as refreshing and uplifting as it is moving; a funny and sad and celebratory account of growing up gay.

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ISBN: 9780143009498

Publisher: Penguin Random House Australia

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 30 July 2015

Country: Australia

Imprint: Penguin Random House Australia

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 19.0mm

Width: 129.0mm

Height: 198.0mm

Weight: 228g

Pages: 304

About the Author

'A monumentally loved book: just mention its title and it's enough to trigger off a wave of people's recollections of first reading it and the emotional toll it took on them . . . an Australian classic.' Benjamin Law. 'Sitting on the plane crying my eyes out at the end of this book ... Honestly, I can't beg you all enough to read this. It's the most incredible thing I've ever read. Life changing.' Sam Smith. 'Full of compassion, candour and zest for life.' The Australian. 'A fine, tender and sexy book.' David Marr. 'Amazingly more than the sum of its parts, a book to stir you up and knock you around and wring you out.' Peter Robb. 'A charming love story.' Herald Sun

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