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Beyond Perfect

How Overwhelmed Parents Can Break Free from Performance Culture
By Maggie Vaughan
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Navigate the pressures of modern parenting through a more balanced and fulfilling approach Written by renowned therapist and parenting expert Dr. Maggie C. Vaughan, Beyond Perfect: How Overwhelmed Parents Can Break Free from Performance Culture is a transformative parenting guide that addresses the pressures of modern... Read More
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Navigate the pressures of modern parenting through a more balanced and fulfilling approach

Written by renowned therapist and parenting expert Dr. Maggie C. Vaughan, Beyond Perfect: How Overwhelmed Parents Can Break Free from Performance Culture is a transformative parenting guide that addresses the pressures of modern parenting. It introduces the FIRE approachβ€”Flexibility, Individuality, Resilience, and Empathyβ€”to help parents foster genuine connections and emotional intelligence in their children. Unlike other parenting books that focus solely on outcomes and achievements, Beyond Perfect emphasizes the importance of emotional wellbeing and relational values.

Readers will find:

  • Tips for maintaining healthy self-esteem and a balance between living competitively vs. collaboratively
  • Practical strategies to reduce anxiety and burnout, ensuring both parents and children thrive
  • Ways to juggle sports, academics, or other extracurricular activities without making children feel like their self-worth is defined solely by their accomplishments
  • Relatable stories and expert insights from Dr. Vaughan’s extensive clinical career

Beyond Perfect is an essential read for parents with children from elementary school to college age who feel overwhelmed by the demands of raising children in a competitive culture and are seeking a more balanced, fulfilling approach.

Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9781394355792

Publisher: John Wiley & Sons Inc

Format: Hardback

Date Published: 30 June 2026

Country: United States

Imprint: Jossey-Bass Inc.,U.S.

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Weight: 300g

Pages: 240

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Education & Reference Health & Wellness Maggie Vaughan Non-Fiction Parenting & Family Self-Help & Personal Development

About the Author

MAGGIE C. VAUGHAN, MFT, PHD, is a therapist and the founder of Happy Apple, a New York City-based psychotherapy center specializing in anxiety, depression, and relationships. She is also Director of Youth Transformation at tapouts and has been featured in media outlets including The New York Times, CNBC, and BBC Radio.

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