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It’s Not Me, It’s You by Mhairi McFarlane is a captivating romance that follows Delia, whose life takes an unexpected turn when her long-term boyfriend's infidelity is uncovered. Embarking on a journey of self-discovery, she moves to London, where she navigates new challenges, meets intriguing new people, and begins to reevaluate her future. This delightful story explores themes of love, growth, and unexpected adventures.
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You might enjoy this romantic journey if you appreciate a blend of humour and heartfelt moments, as it follows a woman's discovery of her own identity and strength after a breakup. With engaging characters and witty writing, it's well-suited for readers who love stories of personal growth mixed with romantic elements.

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An achingly funny story about how to be your own hero when life pulls the rug out from under your feet…

Deliciously romantic and utterly hilarious - the feel-good romcom from the Sunday Times bestselling author of LAST NIGHT

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An achingly funny story about how to be your own hero when life pulls the rug out from under your feet…

This is modern and honest romantic fiction at its most accomplished HEAT

McFarlane’s writing will make you laugh out loud SUNDAY EXPRESS

Brilliantly funny stuff FABULOUS

A delicious feast of comic romance . . . smart and funny SUNDAY EXPRESS


Delia Moss isn’t quite sure where she went wrong.

When she proposed and discovered her boyfriend was sleeping with someone else – she thought it was her fault.

When she realised life would never be the same again – she thought it was her fault.

And when he wanted her back like nothing had changed – Delia started to wonder if perhaps she was not to blame…

From Newcastle to London and back again, with dodgy jobs, eccentric bosses and annoyingly handsome journalists thrown in, Delia must find out where her old self went – and if she can ever get her back.

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Mhairi McFarlane's novel is praised for its witty and engaging prose, offering a modern and honest take on romantic fiction. Reviews highlight its laugh-out-loud humour, smart comic romance, and the empowering journey of female self-discovery. Critics appreciate the blend of sharp social satire and poignant storytelling.

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ISBN: 9780007524983

Publisher: HarperCollins Publishers

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 09 April 2015

Country: United Kingdom

Imprint: HarperCollins

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 35.0mm

Width: 129.0mm

Height: 198.0mm

Weight: 390g

Pages: 560

About the Author

Mhairi was born in Scotland in 1976 and has been explaining how to pronounce her name ever since. (With a ‘V’, not an ‘M’. Yes, that’s us crazy Celts for you). She is based in Nottingham where she used to be a local journalist and now she’s a freelance writer and sometime-blogger, which we all know is code for messing about on Twitter. She likes drinking wine, eating food and obtaining clothes; all the impressive hobbies. Her best anecdotes involve dislocating her elbow tripping over a briefcase and a very bad flight to New York. She lives with a man and a cat.

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