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Boy Friends

A Memoir of Joy, Grief and Male Friendship
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Boy Friends by Michael Pedersen is a heartfelt exploration of male friendship, grief, and self-discovery. The author delves into the profound bond he shared with his late friend, reflecting on their time together and the impact it had on his life. The memoir offers an intimate look at the nuances of friendship and the enduring connection between two people despite loss.
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You might enjoy this book if you appreciate heartfelt and evocative memoirs that explore the depths of friendship and loss. The author poetically navigates his experiences, blending humour and emotion, while celebrating the unique bonds and transformative power of male friendships.

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An intimate and original memoir of love, grief and male friendship by one of Scotland's brightest young talents.

An intimate and original memoir of love, grief and male friendship by one of Scotland's brightest young talents.

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An intimate and original memoir of love, grief, and male friendship by one of Scotland's brightest young talents.

'As perfect a portrait of friendship as I've ever read.' - STEPHEN FRY

'Lucid, lyrical, loaded . . . A love letter to friendship.' - JACKIE KAY

'A lovely book: bright and heartfelt, funny and refreshing.' - ANDREW O'HAGAN

'A beautiful, moving, life-affirming book.' - IAN RANKIN

Friendships might just be the greatest love affairs of our lives . . .

In 2018, poet and author Michael Pedersen lost a cherished friend, Scott Hutchison, soon after their collective voyage into the landscape of the Scottish Highlands. Just weeks later, Michael began to write to him. As he confronts the bewildering process of grief, what starts as a love letter to one magical, coruscating human soon becomes a paean to all the gorgeous male friendships that have transformed his life.

Boy Friends sees Pedersen illuminate these companions with a poet's eye, a comedian's timing - and a lover's care. - OBSERVER

Pedersen is an enthralling narrator and his prose is poetic, written with enough electricity that it seems to jolt off the page. It is riotously funny. Boy Friends opens up conversations about vulnerable subjects: the brunt of suicide, the circumstances of certain types of Scottish masculinity, and where friendships fit into that. - SUNDAY TIMES

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Boy Friends by Michael Pedersen receives praise for its touching and compelling portrayal of friendship. Stephen Fry describes it as a perfect portrait of this natural masterpiece. Ian Rankin sees it as a moving, life-affirming tribute to friendship, while Val McDermid appreciates it as a tender rebuttal to toxic masculinity. The Guardian highlights its reflective take on male friendship and masculinity, paying tribute to Pedersen's late friend.

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ISBN: 9780571360062

Publisher: Faber & Faber

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 27 April 2023

Country: United Kingdom

Imprint: Faber & Faber

Edition: Main

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 14.0mm

Width: 129.0mm

Height: 198.0mm

Weight: 202g

Pages: 240

About the Author

Michael Pedersen is a prize-winning Scottish poet and author. He has published two successful chapbooks and an acclaimed debut collection Play With Me. His second collection, Oyster, was published in 2017 and was illustrated by and performed as a live show with Frightened Rabbit's Scott Hutchinson. Pedersen has been named a Canongate Future 40; was a finalist in the 2018 Writer of the Year at The Herald Scottish Culture Awards; was awarded the 2014 John Mather Trust Rising Star of Literature Award; and won the 2015 Robert Louis Stevenson Fellowship. Pedersen also co-founded Neu! Reekie!, a prize-winning arts collective known for producing cutting edge shows around the world.

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