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Getting The Love You Want Revised Edition

A Guide for Couples
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The 2-million-copy bestselling GETTING THE LOVE YOU WANT, now beautifully repackaged with a new introduction.

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Originally published in 1988, Getting The Love You Want Revised Edition by Dr Harville Hendrix has become an invaluable resource for couples seeking to enrich their relationships. This transformative book delves deep into the dynamics of intimate relationships, offering insightful guidance and practical tools to foster a more loving, supportive, and deeply satisfying partnership. Drawing upon over 30 years of experience as a therapist, Dr Hendrix illuminates the psychology of love and provides actionable steps for couples to enhance their emotional connection.

In this revised edition, Dr Hendrix, along with his wife, Helen LaKelly Hunt, introduces a fresh perspective with a new introduction, shedding light on the profound impact this book has had on countless individuals and relationships worldwide. Their combined insights amplify the book's original message, making it even more relevant and powerful in today's world.

The book features a step-by-step programme designed to help couples navigate common relationship challenges, such as communication issues, unresolved conflicts, and emotional disconnection. Through a series of exercises and reflective practices, readers are guided to develop a deeper understanding of their partner’s needs and desires, fostering empathy and mutual respect.

Getting The Love You Want Revised Edition is not merely a self-help book; it is a comprehensive guide that empowers couples to transform their relationship into a lasting source of love and companionship. By following Dr Hendrix's well-researched methods, couples can rekindle their romance, build a stronger bond, and create a more harmonious and fulfilling relationship.

Whether you are in a new relationship or have been together for decades, this book offers timeless wisdom and practical advice to help you nurture and sustain the love you deserve. Let Dr Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt lead you on a journey towards a more vibrant and resilient partnership.

Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9781471193521

Publisher: Simon & Schuster Ltd

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 19 March 2020

Country: United Kingdom

Imprint: Simon & Schuster Ltd

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 21.0mm

Width: 130.0mm

Height: 198.0mm

Weight: 250g

Pages: 352

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