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Sex at Dawn

How we mate, why we stray, and what it means for modern sexuality
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Sex at Dawn by Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jetha explores the evolutionary origins of human sexuality. It presents the argument that monogamy is not a natural state for humans, examining hunter-gatherer societies to uncover how our ancestors may have approached sex and relationships. Through a blend of anthropology, biology, and psychology, the book challenges contemporary views on love, sex, and mating.
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You might enjoy this book if you're curious about human sexual behaviour, evolutionary biology, and the origins of modern relationships. It challenges conventional views on monogamy, offering a fresh perspective on intimacy and social structures.

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The 10th-anniversary edition of Sex at Dawn by Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jetha offers a profound re-evaluation of the origins and nature of human sexuality. This thought-provoking and revolutionary book challenges conventional beliefs that sexual monogamy is inherent in human beings. Mainstream science, along with religious and cultural institutions, has long upheld the idea that men and women evolved within monogamous family units, where a man's resources and protection were exchanged for a woman's fertility and fidelity.

In contrast, Ryan and Jetha present an alternative view, arguing that prehistoric humans lived in egalitarian groups that shared resources, child care, and often, sexual partners. By intertwining evidence from diverse fields such as anthropology, archaeology, primatology, anatomy, and psychosexuality, the authors illustrate how monogamy is far from being a natural human condition.

Written with intelligence and a touch of humour, Sex at Dawn delves into how our promiscuous past continues to influence our modern-day struggles with sexuality. The authors examine why long-term fidelity is challenging for many, why sexual passion tends to wane even as emotional intimacy deepens, and why homosexuality persists despite traditional evolutionary logic. They also explore what the human body reveals about the primal origins of our sexual behaviours.

Shocking, enlightening, and ultimately inspiring, Sex at Dawn offers readers a revolutionary perspective on why we live and love the way we do. This comprehensive and meticulously researched work is bound to change the way we perceive human sexuality and our intimate relationships.

Sex at Dawn has garnered significant acclaim and sparked widespread discussion:

“Controversial and fascinating.” – Vogue Australia

“Sex at Dawn is the single most important book about human sexuality since Alfred Kinsey unleashed Sexual Behaviour in the Human Male on the American public in 1948.” – Dan Savage, author of the internationally syndicated sex-advice column ‘Savage Love’ and The Commitment: Love, Sex, Marriage, and My Family

“Sex at Dawn has helped me understand myself and the world so much more clearly.” – Ilana Glazer, co-creator of Broad City

This 10th-anniversary edition renews and amplifies the crucial discussions initiated by the original publication, making it an essential addition to the libraries of those interested in understanding the complexities of human sexuality.

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Sex at Dawn explores human sexuality through the lens of evolutionary biology, challenging conventional views on monogamy. Reviews highlight its engaging writing style and provocative arguments, though some critics question its scientific rigor. Overall, it is praised for offering a fresh perspective on human sexual behaviour.

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INFORMATION

ISBN: 9781922310316

Publisher: Scribe Publications

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 05 January 2021

Country: Australia

Imprint: Scribe Publications

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 32.0mm

Width: 136.0mm

Height: 209.0mm

Weight: 436g

Pages: 416

About the Author

Christopher Ryan (Author) Christopher Ryan received his PhD in research psychology at Saybrook Graduate School in San Francisco, focusing on pre-historic sexual behaviour. He has taught at the University of Barcelona Medical School and published both scientific and popular articles and book chapters on human sexuality. Cacilda Jetha (Author) Dr Cacilda Jetha is a practising psychiatrist, specialising in psycho-sexual disorders and couples therapy. She has done field research on sexuality for the World Health Organisation.

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