{"product_id":"mating-in-captivity","title":"Mating in Captivity","description":"\u003cdiv class=\"book-description\"\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eWhen you love someone, how does it feel? And when you desire someone, how is it different?\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eIn \u003ci\u003eMating in Captivity\u003c\/i\u003e, Esther Perel delves deep into the complex dynamics of sexual desire in long-term relationships. Modern romance often promises it all — a lifetime of togetherness, intimacy, and sustained erotic desire. Yet, the reality for many couples is a poignant disconnect between the security of love and the thrill of passion. In a relationship where both partners crave safety and stability, it's often challenging to rekindle the intense eroticism that first brought them together.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eThis book challenges the traditional narratives that suggest domesticity and eroticism cannot coexist. Perel explores the paradoxical nature of modern love, arguing that our search for secure attachment often stifles our quest for adventure and excitement. She posits that the very thing which ignited our relationships — raw, unadulterated lust — is usually the first casualty in the pursuit of long-term commitment.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eDetermined to bridge the gap between the erotic and the domestic, Perel offers insightful perspectives and practical advice. She reveals why the principles of democracy and equality, which serve us so well in our social institutions, can dampen the flames of desire in our personal lives. Through this exploration, Perel advocates for embracing playfulness, cultivating mystery, and permitting a degree of uncertainty within relationships to reignite passion.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003e\u003ci\u003eMating in Captivity\u003c\/i\u003e is a provocative and thought-provoking read that urges couples to question their assumptions about love and desire. With a mix of astute analysis and real-world examples, Perel provides readers with strategies to rediscover and sustain a vibrant and fulfilling sex life. This book is essential reading for anyone seeking to understand the intricate dance between commitment and eroticism, making it the ultimate bedside companion for the modern monogamist.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e","brand":"Hachette New Zealand Ltd","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":45712424763628,"sku":"9780340943755","price":27.0,"currency_code":"NZD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0705\/7784\/8556\/files\/9780340943755_4fb08cd8-eed3-4484-87b3-7a042261e61b.jpg?v=1732681525","url":"https:\/\/bookhero.pro\/products\/mating-in-captivity","provider":"Book Hero","version":"1.0","type":"link"}